15th Mar 2010

Kinda long question, but I could definitely use some help... 10 points?

  • I VERY much like my friend, but he has absolutely no idea how I feel about him. But being the unaffectionate person that I am, flirting is hard for me. How can I flirt with him? He stopped hugging me a long time ago, because he knows I usually don't like to be touched, and is now very dedicated to giving me my space. How can I show this boy that I like him. I can't straight up tell him, because I don't have the courage for that. And I'm terrified of asking a friend, because we don't hang out with the same people minus the ones that ride the bus, and none of them know that I like him... and if they found out, they might use it against me, or tell people. Lovely friends, right?


    Also, you don't have to answer this, but I would very much like it if you did. Does it sound like he likes me?
    He tells me he loves me all the time.
    He respects my personal space, and understands that I don't like to be touched.
    He defends me when someone says something he thinks will upset me.
    He's been trying to get this girl who used to hate me, to be nice, or my friend.
    He tells me that he loves my hair.
    Yesterday he told me that my shirt looked really good on me and it's another reason for people to stare at my chest.
    He stares at me... he has been since like, the first time I ever met him. He'll stare at me purposely to get a reaction.
    My friends told me he used to... or still does like me. I don't know if I can believe them, though.
    He always tries to stand by me when he thinks I'm uncomfortable.

    He does other stuff too, but I don't want to make this too long.

    Thanks for any help.


  • Simply write him a letter and express your feelings. Not an email a real old school letter, you'll be surprised what a little snail mail can do.


  • He sounds like a rare breed. A good friend, indeed.

    The next time he defends you, takes up for you or moves in to make you feel comfortable in an awkward situation, lean in close to his ear and say a gentle, "Thank you." Lightly brush against his cheek--even give him a soft kiss.

    If you're too shy to do that, then take his hand or simply place yours on top of his, look squarely in his eyes and say a very intimate, "Thank you."

    He may be simply waiting until you feel comfortable enough around him to give him a sign. Guys do appreciate that, you know. Don't make it hard for him. It seems he's stuck by you and been patiently waiting for you to be ready to accept him as more than a friend.







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