05th Jan 2009
The Process in Development of Self Voice and Mind
Self-development is the process by which an individual takes conscious efforts to improve all aspects of his/her life. This encompasses mental and emotional improvements thereby enhancing the overall quality of life.
Self-development is a continuous process. It cannot happen over night. It has to be gradual and enjoyable. Each and every one of us has a defined set of goals and aspirations in life. We have to take determined efforts to accomplish them. Dreams provide a gateway to our inner-thoughts. Dreaming can be encouraged provided you devise the ways and means to make your dream a reality. We want to be the best in everything we do and we also want the best out of life, both in terms of material and non-material aspects. These thoughts cannot be regarded as egoistic passions but as legitimate rights and even obligations of a person to himself/herself.
How and where do we start? The most fundamental aspect of self-development is to know one self. You have to know your likes and dislikes, aspirations and apprehensions, strengths and weaknesses. You have to take efforts to know yourself. You can go about doing this by analyzing your reactions and behavior over a sustained period of time. You have to dig deep into your mind to know what you actually think and want.
You must accept your weaknesses and fears. Self-denial will pull you down. It will result in emotional instability and you will have no control over any of your actions. On the contrary, when you accept that you have a weakness, it helps you to move forward and overcome it.
Once you know your fears, weaknesses and apprehensions, you can steadily work towards removing it. You can do it on your own or take the help of someone who is mentally better developed than you as a mentor. You must believe in yourself and believe that you can do anything and everything. This belief is of utmost importance if you want to change yourself for the better.
Development of self encompasses mental and emotional development. People learn to handle their problems in a better way. Mental and emotional instability diminishes by leaps and bounds. They prepare themselves to face a world filled with violence, crime, abuse, sex, racism, poverty and other evils.
Self-development helps an individual to become highly motivated and self-reliant. They do what they believe is right. A self-reliant person negates the influence of external forces on his/her mind. He/she is not all agitated about what is happening in the world. Such people find a rare peace and serenity within themselves.
A self- developed person transcends dualism. He/she is fully and consciously present and aware in every moment of life. This makes such people to enjoy life to the utmost. Such a person is more tolerant and humane to other people around them. They become less of machines and more of human. It is the ultimate key to mastery over us, our emotions and thoughts. They rise above mortal fears and worries.
In the process of developing their self and mind, they act as guiding light for others inspiring them to follow suit. They can act as mentors to others and help them overcome their emotional and mental obstacles in life. It helps them to inch towards achieving perfection in all spheres of life.
Imagine a world full of motivated and self-reliant individuals. There is no limit to what we can do. We can annihilate the evils plaguing us today. Every individual will be able to access everything. Equality and self-respect will prevail in every part of the world. Self-development is truly a small step, which will result in a giant leap for humankind.
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